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Most of us live as if there is no substance attached to our existence. We find peace, meaning and fulfilment in adulterated things like the latest fashion trends and latest electronics. Instead of being dependent on popular trends, why can’t we live with substance?

Life is short, beautiful and valuable. Embedded in the serenity of life is its own substance- the precious reasons we can find/allocate to our existence.

We spend most of our days chasing meaningless things as human beings, forgetting to look and find the substance hidden in life.

We are easily discouraged, tortured and defeated by the little things that do not go the way we intend, forgetting that the real substance of life goes beyond these things.

No matter what obstacles and disappointments we face, they will always be temporal and soon pass. This is why every moment of life presents us with new opportunity to self-actualization, fulfilment and finding the substance of our existence. [Read the rest of this entry...]

‘Life is difficult’ and it is the same for everyone. I hear a lot of people unconsciously saying-, their lives are difficult. I mostly reply by saying; who said it was going to be easy?

The difficulty of life is embedded in its lousy and uncertain nature. Beneath the difficulty of life which we mostly complain about lies the most precious gift of muscles building.

The journey to overcome life’s difficulties makes us stronger and enables us to build priceless skills which we need to establish the purpose of our existence.

The beauty and wonders of our existence are all buried in the difficulty of life. For us to be able to find the true purpose of our existence, build fathomless skills and perfectly grow our inner beings and muscles, we must fight the difficulties of life. That is the only way we would be able to develop ourselves and achieve greatness.

What is greatness if it is achieved without difficulty or hard work? Achieving greatness is only possible because life is difficult. [Read the rest of this entry...]

Since the concept of success is a journey and not a destination, our ability to keep moving when things are great and also when things are bad determines our success level in life.

After putting in all your energy, if the input fetches the result you were looking for, all you have to do is smile and embrace the achievement with humility. Then keep moving on…

On the other hand, if your input fetches a disappointing result, you have to welcome the setback and failure with confidence, learn from it and then keep moving on…

Anytime you stop moving as a result of a setback or an achievement, you delay or shrink your success level…Remember the movement or journey is the success, not the destination you lodge.

No matter where you find yourself, the only way to make things better is to keep moving. Do not be overwhelmed by your achievements, build on them by moving on. Look for new ways, energy and tactics to improve on your current situation. The movement must continue… [Read the rest of this entry...]

The most dangerous thing we can do to ourselves is failing to plan for our existence. The ability to shape and build our lives is the greatest gift available to us.

The problem however is that, most of us have no personal plans and therefore end up tapping into the plans of others. Leaving someone to build your life for you is extremely suicidal.

You will not leave your most precious property in life to someone…so why let someone build your life, your future and your well-being?

Most of us are doing nothing towards building our lives. After all, that is the easiest thing to do in life…Do nothing. However, nothing gets done by doing nothing. Your life will not get itself built by simply doing nothing.

It is heart breaking that we spend lots of time caring about the things we care about without rendering any service to them. Simply caring about something is not enough. It will not build that thing into its fullest capabilities. To build a life, we must begin to invest our time and strength into the things we care about. [Read the rest of this entry...]

As human beings, many of us are under intense pressure to satisfy our needless needs, thereby curtailing the happiness and peace of mind we are supposed to enjoy as we journey through life.

Most of us are driven and far stretched to unbearable limits in our desire to satisfy our needs. But do we really need all those needs? The mere fact that you see something as a need in life does not really mean you need it or at that particular time, you got to have it.

The assumption of needs is a complex discipline and many have tried to wrongly simplify it by saying, needs are those you cannot do without in life.

The above is not only wrong, it also fails to take into account the distinctiveness of us as individuals, our capabilities, strength and weakness in satisfying our needs-including the fundamentals.

If your happiness and peace of mind is being curtailed by your desire to satisfy your needs, you must re-evaluate these needs to ascertain if you really need them. [Read the rest of this entry...]

The concept of being positive and wishing for positive things is widely misunderstood. Even though positivity pays and being positive about things is recommendable, simply wishing for positive things without doing anything will not bring you anything. In fact, it may bring you negativity-disappointment.

On the other hand, spending a great number of hours worrying about what you do not want, or do not want to happen to you does not stop that thing from occurring. It is believed that, the more you spend your time and energy thinking and worrying about what you do not want, the more you give it power and increases the possibility of it occurring in your life.

As human beings, it is easily to fall into the deep pit of wishing without doing anything. Simply wishing or thinking about positivity will not bring it, however, thinking about not wanting the negativity gives it a great possibility of it happening, not fair right?

In order to avoid what you do not want and get the positive things you want, you got to elevate yourself from the wishing and thinking level into the doing something positive rank. [Read the rest of this entry...]